A dream, a reality, and then a memory. Life starts and then ends. If you observe the string, you can see that life is much similar to dots connected, like everything is planned. You are the only person who can change the rest of your way that will start with a dream, which you once saw when you got tired of life and fall asleep blaming your fortune. And if the next morning, you began to discover the glimpse; you spotted in your dream, in the physical world, then here you catch the first dot of the string of your life!
Believe in yourself, in the existence of the person who can dream; you can be a completely new person by this time next year. So why wait to see who you’ll be tomorrow? Remember, nobody has any concern for you and your life. Be a self-supported person who doesn’t need anyone to spot the next dot on the string of your life. Listen, you’re more important and enough for yourself than you think, aren’t you? Recall those moments in the back end of your mind, remember all those people you helped, remember all the books you read? Without you, a lot of things will change. Maybe those persons get sadder and more melancholy without you. You’re here for a reason; if you don’t know what the reason is, find it or create it, just for yourself. There’s no need to listen to the idiot who tells you shitty stuff like “You’re dramatic/worthless/useless/ugly.” Those stupids are not more than purposeless ones, so they try to make you feel like them. You’re much better than them, love yourself and don’t let people hurt you or affect you, surround your existence with those precious gems who knows your real value, who appreciate you for meeting the next dot of the string of your life, who dare to accept you with all your imperfections. You don’t have to change for anyone to make them love you. I think it’s more wonderful to see you, the person who you want to be.
Treat yourself, appreciate yourself, because no one is going to do it for you. To learn a trick on how to overcome anger is essential. I prefer the certainty of separation then the uncertainty of “almost.” Don’t let anyone dull the sparkle you have. Going with the words of Aaron Arciaga, I hope you find the courage to step away from the things that are not good for you. I hope you find the strength to let go of the person who feels like “the one” but doesn’t work out for you. I hope you find the will to throw away all the what-ifs from the open doors that could lead you to a wrong path. I hope you find peace in accepting that “just because it is beautiful, doesn’t mean it’s for you.” I hope you still believe that your heart, feet, and dreams will eventually find a place where they truly belong.
I hope you will treat yourself and appreciate yourself in a way so that you can meet the glimpse of your dream that you once saw when you were disappointed by life in this world of reality. I hope the time will also come when the truth has become a magnificent memory of your life. And obviously, you will be the person who you want to be till that time. Have a dream, have the courage to change it into reality, and then be available there to relish you with that memory.